When It Does Not Work

Relationships

Facing the Issues

Two people with an emotional attachment between them will often go to great lengths to continue their relationship, but the work might not be worth the time they spend trying to patch things up. It could be as simple as trying to figure out how to balance their career and leisure time, or it could be as complex as learning one of them wants children and the other does not. When they find something that blocks their smooth path to a life together, facing the issues becomes a part of their relationship. Working it out is always good, but it is not always possible.

Career goals are important for most people in the modern world, but some have already established their career well enough to balance it with their free time. They might see their partner’s strife in reaching the same goal as a roadblock. Their partner could feel they are being demeaned when their work habits are questioned, or they could find they are being pulled into a direction that will make their career suffer. Facing this issue is important if the two want to continue their relationship.

Some issues occur after a couple is deeply attached, and they might even affect a marriage. One person wants children, the other does not, and they have to find a way to compromise. It is obvious that one of them will have to bend, but making the decision will have a huge effect for the rest of their lives. The person who wants children might be willing to give up their dream, or the one who does not could give in and accept only one child as their part of a compromise.

Whatever two people in a relationship decide when solving their issues, both of them will have to live with the result. They might be too far apart, or they could find that the decisions they make will change both of them.